Know Your Rights When You Experience Sexual Harassment In The Workplace

California workplace sexual harassment laws protect employees and outline rights, reporting steps, employer duties, and available legal remedies. This article explains harassment types, complaint options, retaliation rules, compensation, and recent arbitration law changes affecting California workers.

By Brad Nakase, Attorney

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Introduction

Workplace sexual harassment can be very difficult to handle. But understand this—you’re not isolated. This issue shows up in LA offices, San Francisco startups, and job sites across California.

What happened to you is real. Your gut feeling isn’t “wrong.”

Here is the bottom line: You have actual legal armor. California has some of the toughest protections in the country, and they exist for one reason—to make sure you don’t have to just “take it.”

This guide isn’t about corporate fluff. It serves as a guide to help you comprehend your rights. It discusses boots-on-the-ground steps you can take to stand up for yourself & get justice.

Statistics

The numbers are pretty grim. The EEOC’s numbers make one thing clear. This isn’t rare. Sexual harassment at work has affected one in four women. It’s one in five for men. That’s not a fluke. It’s not a few bad offices or a handful of outdated cases.

It’s happening right now. In warehouses, in hospitals, & in corporate offices.

The #MeToo movement finally broke the silence, but it also exposed just how much garbage people have had to put up with just to keep their jobs.

Here is the straight talk on the law:

  • It is illegal. No one can call it a “bad vibe” or a violation of an employee handbook. It is against the law.
  • Knowledge is your leverage. You cannot battle for what is rightfully yours without it.
  • The first move is yours. Seeing the law as a “tool for justice” is the way to start holding people accountable.

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California Sexual Harassment Law

California law doesn’t ask whether someone meant to cross a line. It asks what the behavior did to your work environment.

If sexual behavior makes your job feel tense, degrading, or unsafe because of your sex, that’s harassment. Full stop. It doesn’t have to be constant. One incident can be enough if it’s serious.

No pattern required. No “just kidding” defense.

What does that actually mean at work?

  • A boss hinting that your schedule, promotion, or job security depends on “being flexible.”
  • Sexual jokes or comments that target you, not the room
  • Touching you didn’t invite—shoulders, waist, hips, chest, or anywhere else
  • Repeated advances after you’ve clearly shut them down
  • Explicit talk that has nothing to do with work but everything to do with control
  • Threats disguised as consequences: fewer hours, worse shifts, lower pay
  • Punishment after you complain—suddenly you’re “the problem.”
  • Staring, smirking, gestures meant to make you uncomfortable
  • Being shown or sent sexual images, messages, or objects
  • Blocking your path, standing too close, refusing to give you space

If it made you dread coming to work or question your safety, the law doesn’t shrug. It listens—even if your employer didn’t. You might wonder: “What is generally the first step for someone experiencing sexual harassment? The answer isn’t complicated. It’s about knowing your rights.

What to Do If You’re Being Sexually Harassed at Work in California

  1. Start With Your Rights

You’re entitled to a workplace that feels safe and professional. Not tense. Not degrading.

California law places that responsibility squarely on your employer. They are required to take it seriously and respond appropriately once harassment is reported. Looking the other way isn’t acceptable.

  1. Review Your Employer’s Policy

Most California employers have a written sexual harassment policy because the law requires it. Many employees never read it until something goes wrong.

Take the time to find it. Pay attention to the reporting process & who complaints are supposed to go to. That detail matters more than people realize. What is generally the first step for someone experiencing sexual harassment? It’s reviewing your employer’s policy & understanding the reporting process.

  1. Report the Behavior Clearly

Put it in writing whenever possible. Write an email summarizing what was said if the initial report is verbal. Include dates, locations, names, & witnesses. You may feel uncomfortable, but be specific and detailed. Save everything. Emails, screenshots, notes.

This isn’t about escalation. It’s about protecting your position and creating a record.

Reporting to Your Employer Doesn’t Fix Things

What is generally the first step for someone experiencing sexual harassment? Filing a complaint internally comes first. Outside agencies are next. You have to look outside the company for help if nothing changes after you report the harassment.

  1. Moving Beyond Your Employer

Involve the state or federal government if your boss ignores you or starts punishing you for speaking up. You can file a formal complaint with either the California Civil Rights Department (formerly DFEH). The federal route is the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC). You don’t need to do both—picking one is enough to get the gears turning.

  1. Getting an Attorney in Your Corner

This stuff is complicated. Having an employment lawyer in Los Angeles or San Francisco can take the weight off your shoulders. A good attorney will:

  • Sift through the facts: They’ll tell you exactly which laws were broken and if your evidence is strong enough.
  • Handle the paperwork: They can take care of the formal filings so you don’t miss a deadline.
  • Make the call: They’ll help you decide if a full-blown lawsuit is actually worth your time or if there’s a better way to get a resolution.
  1. A Warning About Social Media

Be incredibly careful about what you post online. Your employer’s lawyers will be scouring your accounts. They want to find anything they can use to twist the story.

  • Nothing is truly private: Your talks with a lawyer or doctor are legally protected. Anything you say to friends, family, or followers is not.
  • Don’t leak your own secrets: You might actually lose your right to keep lawyer conversations confidential if you post them online.

Available Remedies

If you win a sexual harassment case in California, the law is designed to actually pay you back for what you’ve been through. It isn’t just about a “sorry”—it’s about cold, hard compensation for the ways your life and career were messed with.

  • Emotional Distress: This covers the mental toll. The anxiety, the lost sleep, & the stress that comes with being harassed.
  • Getting Your Job Back: The court can order the company to hire you back if you were fired. They may be asked to give you your old position.
  • Lost Wages (Back Pay): You can recover the money you lost from missed shifts.
  • Making the Company Change: This is about the future. A settlement or verdict can force the employer to rewrite its policies. They may have to change how they do things.

Additional Remedies

Aside from just getting your lost wages back, there are a few other ways the court can try to make things right. The court can actually order the company to pay for your legal fees and costs if you win a civil lawsuit. It includes what you spent on expert witnesses.

The punishment is harsher in the absolute worst cases. The company wasn’t just negligent but was actually cruel. You might get punitive damages. This is extra money meant specifically to punish the employer and make sure they never do it again.

What Counts as “Extreme” Behavior? (Civil Code 3294)

California is very specific about when you can hit a company with punitive damages.

  • Malice: They went out of their way to hurt you, or just flat-out ignored your safety and rights.
  • Oppression: They put you through “despicable” & cruel hardship on purpose.
  • Fraud: They lied to you, hid the truth, & tricked you to cheat you out of your rights.

A Big Difference: California Law vs. Federal Law

This is where it gets technical, but it matters for your paycheck. If you file under Federal Law (Title VII), there is a “cap” or a limit on how much you can get in punitive damages based on how big the company is:

Small companies (15–100 people): The most you can get is $50,000.

Big corporations (500+ people): The limit jumps up to $300,000.

The California Advantage: Under California’s state law (FEHA), these “caps” don’t exist in the same way. This is why most people in CA prefer to file using state law—it doesn’t put a ceiling on your justice just because of the company’s size.

Sexual Harassment Types

The legal system loves to use fancy terms, but when you’re actually living through it, it’s much simpler. Basically, there are two main ways this happens at work.

  1. The “Trade” (Quid Pro Quo)

This is the classic “this for that” scenario. It’s when someone in power tries to use their power as a bargaining chip for sexual demands.

  • The ultimatum: They make their intent apparent. You must comply with their advances if you want the position, the raise, or even just to retain your shifts.
  • Zero tolerance: You don’t need to prove this happened ten times. In California, if a boss tries this even once, they’ve crossed the line, and the company is on the hook.
  1. The “Toxic Vibe” (Hostile Work Environment)

This is less about a specific “deal” and more about the workplace becoming a nightmare. It’s when the behavior around you gets bad and frequent. You can’t even focus on your job.

  • The buildup: It’s the constant crude jokes, the “accidental” touching, or the suggestive crap people post on the walls or send in group chats.
  • You don’t have to be the target: Here’s a big one people miss: even if they aren’t talking to you directly, if you’re forced to work in a place where people are acting like this, you still have a right to speak up. It’s about the environment being broken, not just a one-on-one insult.

California Fair Employment & Housing Act

The guidelines are established by the Fair Employment and Housing Act. Sexual harassment is considered employment discrimination under FEHA & federal law (Title VII).

1. Employee Liability

If an employee harasses someone, they can be held personally responsible for damages. It doesn’t matter if the employer knew or not.

2. Employer Liability

Employers can be on the hook, too. If a supervisor harasses, the employer is “strictly liable.” Or if the employer knew—or should have known—and did nothing, they are responsible.

3. Filing a Complaint

FEHA doesn’t let you skip straight to court. You have to file with the California Department of Fair Employment and Housing (DFEH) first. Only after getting a right-to-sue notice can you take the case to court.

Evolving Laws

Ending Forced Arbitration of Sexual Assault & Sexual Harassment Act (EFASASHA) is the new federal law. It changed the rules of the game.

Many workers were blocked from ever seeing a courtroom because of the “fine print” in their hiring paperwork. Companies used to force employees into private arbitration. A secret process that kept harassment claims out of the public eye.

Here is how things work now:

1. No More Mandatory Secrets

Arbitration is private, which usually helps companies hide bad behavior. This new law stops employers from forcing you into that private system if you’ve been sexually harassed or assaulted.

2. You Have the Choice

You can now ignore the arbitration agreement even if you signed it on your first day.

  • You can decide the venue. Whether to take your case to public court or stay in arbitration. The company cannot make that choice for you anymore.
  • It covers the “Whole Case”: In California, if your lawsuit includes a sexual harassment claim, your entire case—including other things like unpaid wages—can stay in court. You don’t have to split your claims up into different legal battles.

3. Strength in Numbers

The law also protects your right to join a class action. Employers can no longer use “joint-action waivers” to stop groups of survivors from suing together.

Those old contracts you signed aren’t the brick wall they used to be. You have a path to a public trial, a jury, & a permanent record of what happened. This transparency is a massive win for holding companies accountable.

What Not to Do if You Face Sexual Harassment in California

  1. Don’t Delete Evidence

Texts, emails, notes, anything offensive—don’t erase them. They matter. Take screenshots and photos. Write down dates, times, locations, & witnesses. Every little detail counts.

  1. Don’t Record Conversations Without Consent

California law says you need everyone’s permission to record private talks. Audio, video with sound—same rule. Exceptions are rare, like recording police on duty. Don’t record when in doubt.

  1. Don’t Wait Too Long

Time limits exist. DFEH complaints: file within one year. EEOC complaints: usually 180 days, 300 in California. Waiting can cost you your rights.

  1. Don’t Accept Retaliation

If your employer punishes you for speaking up, that makes the situation worse legally.

  1. Don’t Buy Excuses

“He wasn’t attracted to you.” “They’re not our employee.” “You’re just an intern.” None of these excuses matters. Harassment is harassment & everyone is protected.

  1. Don’t Assume You’re Alone

What seems mild to you may deeply affect someone else. Harassment is judged by impact.

  1. Don’t Overthink Being “Too Sensitive.”

Feeling upset is normal. Perpetrators may claim it was “just a joke.” Impact matters more than intent.

  1. Don’t Confuse Harassment with Assault

Forced sexual contact is not harassment—it’s sexual assault. That’s a crime under California law.

Conclusion

The bottom line is this: you don’t have to just “deal with it.” The most important thing to remember is that you aren’t stuck. California law is built to be your leverage, ensuring that “business as usual” doesn’t include being targeted or degraded. Whether you are facing a supervisor’s “this for that” ultimatum or a toxic office environment that makes you dread your alarm clock, the law is on your side.

You have more power now than ever before. With the end of forced arbitration and the strength of FEHA, you finally have a clear path to get actual justice and hold the right people responsible. Don’t let a company’s HR department or a bad boss convince you that you’re alone.

You have the law, you have the right to compensation, and you have the right to a job where you actually feel safe. The big question remains: “What is generally the first step for someone experiencing sexual harassment?” It’s simple. Recognize it, record it, & report it.

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